We always strive to present ourselves as smarter, more competent and better than others. Because the current era is the era of competition, the era of competition. If you can’t prove yourself to be the best, you are falling behind others. In this endeavor you sometimes succeed, get applause, garlands, your bosom swells with joy, your countenance brightens.
But when you go to sleep alone in bed at night, when you think about yourself alone, you yourself will admit that you also have a lot of opportunity to develop your personality. There are many qualities you have not utilized, many techniques you have not mastered. Could not develop many areas of talent. So there is an opportunity for self development.
As a result we try to evolve every day, we change. And the goal of this change is always to become a better person. Every day we want our personality to be more attractive, more beautiful, more influential. Only when we overcome our faults will our personality become attractive. We can take some small programs or steps for personality development or self-development, which will transform us into better human beings.
1. Target
We always want to do something. We think that these things must be done. But it can be seen that those works are not done, they accumulate. For example, I will write a letter but it is not written. Losing weight by exercising is also not done. Some essential work that needs to be done also accumulates. As if these tasks love to pile up, or there is laziness in us that procrastinates. Maybe we are busy or tired or don’t want to do the work on time.
Our real problem in this regard is the lack of specific goals. So before we act we need to target. Goals always provide mental motivation, boost your energy. However, researchers have found that if the goal is too vague, it is not effective at all. And if the goal is not consistent with reality, it is also not effective. We often set unrealistic, impossible goals. Many times we decide to do those things during the time when it is not possible to do them. As a result those tasks are not done. So before setting goals you need to make sure that your goals are specific, challenging but achievable.
And there is a specific time frame to achieve this goal. Only then you can make it a reality. Adding a little variety to your routine will make it easier to keep yourself on target. Small changes in your routine will increase motivation to work. Like taking a different route to work, meeting new people, creating new tasks. When a task seems absolutely boring, reward yourself for completing such a boring task. No matter how small the reward.
2. Create a better sense of yourself
When you start liking yourself, you will become confident and creative. Calmness will come in the face, you will want to walk with your chest tight. Strength will come in the voice. You will find the obstacles of daily work tolerable. So you should strive to improve your self-image. Keep your work appreciation letters, notes, any testimonials, standards, certificates in a file carefully.
Look at these papers if you ever get frustrated or upset for any reason. turn over You will regain enthusiasm. Make the most of your skills. The more you develop the virtues, the more the faults will be covered. Think about the faults when you have time. There is no need to waste sleepless nights worrying about your limitations. Eliminate negative thoughts completely. Think more about your ability and energy to do things. Your congratulations will make him happy as well as spread joy in you.
Learn to take risks when necessary. Nothing big can be done if you can’t take risks with a cool head. Risk doesn’t always mean you win. But even if you take a risk and lose, you can learn from it. Reintroduce yourself if necessary. A change in appearance, a new style of mustache, beard or hair, a new outfit or even a new polish on shoes can enhance your personality expression.
3. Work on time
Start working while you still have time. Late starters are, in a sense, highly optimistic. They think they can finish work on time even if they are late. Don’t understand, others never take kindly to this lateness. Arriving late somewhere creates a negative impression on others. So always appear on time. There is no point in setting the clock forward five minutes to be punctual.
Instead, if you want to reach somewhere on time, leave fifteen minutes before the time it would take to walk. And if you want to go by vehicle, keep at least half an hour. Then even if you get stuck in a jam, you will be able to appear on time. Sleep an hour less on your workdays to save time. If you can save an hour of sleep every working day, you will see a whole month at the end of the year. And by adding this extra work month, you will be able to finish many of your unfinished tasks. And don’t try to stay awake at night unnecessarily.
Because most people are most active in the morning. Trying to do everything perfectly is also a pointless endeavor. Most of the time we procrastinate while trying to perfect. So if your work is 80% perfect and 20% rough then you get off. You went ahead of others in the competition. Protect yourself from unnecessary telephone calls and unwanted visitors to finish work on time. If you have unwanted visitors, leave your chair and read. Ask him directly, what can I do for you?
Jump straight to the point. End the conversation standing up and say goodbye to him. Don’t waste your precious time on fluff for the sake of unnecessary politeness. Choose the most convenient time of the day to answer unnecessary telephone calls, such as before lunch or before leaving the office in the afternoon.
4. Control anger
Anger is often a feeling of betrayal or helplessness. We get excited, want to control the excitement but don’t know what to do with the excitement. Find the reasons for your anger. Take practical steps to eliminate those causes, and you will see the anger subside.
5. Study
Study for life for self building and self discovery. Read self development and self development books. Collect and read necessary books on body-health, food, exercise etc. Immerse yourself in classic literary works in your free time by collecting biographies of successful people. Knowledge about life can make your path easier.
6. Do meditation
Discovering your potential without diving into yourself don’t go So go to bed every night and sit quietly. Calm your body and mind in the process of meditation. Review your day’s work. Apologize to yourself for mistakes. Thank yourself for a job well done. Renew your belief in your abilities. Then fall asleep. Wake up in the morning and meditate again. Plan the day’s work. Start a new day with new faith. As your personality develops you will gradually climb the golden pinnacle of success.